Rau tus muag khoom, muaj peev xwm sib txuas lus thiab nrhiav cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib cuag nrog cov neeg siv khoom yog tus yuam sij rau kev lag luam zoo. Qhov txuj ci no yuav tsum tau kawm ib hnub dhau ib hnub thiaj li ua tiav qee qhov tshwm sim. Cov tswv yim sib txuas lus tseem tsim nyog nco ntsoov.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Saib xyuas qhov muag rau koj cov neeg siv khoom. Qhov no, ua ntej ntawm txhua yam, txhawb kev ntseeg siab rau koj, thiab tseem pab kom nkag siab txog qhov koj tus neeg siv khoom muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog. Tsis nco qab txog lwm tus neeg thiab cov haujlwm tshwj xeeb. Tsis txhob teb xov tooj. Yuav tsis tshua muaj neeg sau thaum mloog tus neeg lub luag hauj lwm. Sim ua kom pom qhov tsis yog qhov sib xyaw: hais lus ntawm lub ntsej muag, luag nyav, yoj tes, saib zoo, thiab lwm yam. Nco ntsoov tias tus neeg muag khoom yog tus muaj kev nyuaj siab heev.
Kauj ruam 2
Saib xyuas kev sib hais kom sib haum. Sim tsis txhob cuam tshuam nrog koj tus khub sib tham. Koj yuav tsum nkag siab qhov nws xav tau. Tsuas yog tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem muab cov lus teb tsim nyog. Yog tias nws hais tias nws tsis txaus siab rau qee yam, sim seb nws yog dab tsi. Tsis txhob thuam lub tuam txhab cov khoom lossis kev pabcuam tus kheej. Qhov no tuaj yeem tsim cov kev xav tsis zoo. Yog tias nws xav tau qee yam, qhia nws tias koj tuaj yeem muab nws.
Kauj ruam 3
Txhais txhua lo lus phem ua rau qhov zoo. Yog tias koj tus neeg siv khoom hais ib yam dab tsi, "Koj lub xov tooj tsuas yog dab tuag teb." Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, koj yuav tsum rov qab hais dua cov lus no: “Yog li koj txhais tau tias tus neeg teb xov tooj tsis tuaj yeem ua raws li koj qhov kev thov? Zoo, hauv qhov xwm txheej no, nws tsim nyog xav txog koj qhov kev thov ntxiv, tab sis kom paub meej."
Kauj ruam 4
Muaj kev txwv thiab nyob twj ywm rau txhua qhov teeb meem nrog tus yuav. Nws ib txwm yog. Nco ntsoov txoj cai golden no ntawm kev lag luam. Luag ntxhi thiab teb qhov zoo thiab nquag. Qhia tag nrho cov ntsiab lus tias txhua qhov teeb meem yuav daws tau. Ua tib zoo saib xyuas cov qhua tuaj noj mov thib ob ntawm kev sib tham. Thiab nws yuav zoo siab rau koj cov kev siv zog. Qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog qhov koj hais, tab sis koj yuav ua li cas.
