Kev rov ua zoo li qub yog thawj kauj ruam mus rau txoj haujlwm npau suav, vim hais tias txoj kev uas ib tug neeg nthuav qhia nws tus kheej hais ntau yam txog nws. Lub ntsiab yog ua rau muaj qhov sib npaug ntawm kev tsom mus rau koj qhov zoo thiab averting koj lub qhov muag los ntawm qhov tsis txaus ntseeg me me.
Dab tsi yog nws rau
Txhawm rau nthuav tawm koj daim ntawv qhia koj tus kheej hauv qhov kev sib tw tshaj plaws thiab muaj txiaj ntsig, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom paub tias nws yog dab tsi thiab nws yog rau dab tsi. Lo lus no tuaj txog lus Lavxias los ntawm Fab Kis: lus Fab Kis "rov pib dua" txhais tau tias "cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb". Ntawd yog, nyob hauv cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev rov ua dua los ua cov cuab yeej siv los nrhiav haujlwm, nws yog qhov kev qhia luv luv ntawm ib tus neeg, nws cov kev txawj ntse, cov kev paub dhau los thiab tus kheej zoo. Txhua tus tsuas yog qhov tseem ceeb rau txhua txoj haujlwm tshwj xeeb yuav tsum muaj nyob hauv nws. Daim ntawv qhia txog tus kheej yog ib hom kev lag luam hauv lub zog ua haujlwm. Thiab hom kev txhawb nqa tus kheej no zoo ib yam rau cov neeg nrhiav haujlwm thiab chaw ua haujlwm. Cov ntawv sau keeb kwm ua tiav lub hom phiaj nkaus xwb - los kos cov xim ntawm tom kawg rau cov neeg sib tw uas tsim nws. Thiab tsis yog them nyiaj mloog xwb, tab sis kuj ua rau tus tswv ntiav neeg tuaj yeem caw tus neeg thov tshwj xeeb no rau kev xam phaj.
Dab tsi yuav tsum
Yog tias koj xav tsis tsuas sau koj daim ntawv qhia koj tus kheej, tab sis kuj nce koj txoj kev xam phaj, tom qab ntawv nws yog qhov tsim nyog los ua raws li qee cov lus qhia rau sau nws. Thaum koj pib sau daim ntawv qhia txog tus kheej, sim ua qhov chaw ntawm tus thawj saib xyuas uas yuav ntiav koj. Xav txog seb hom neeg uas koj xav pom hauv qhov chaw no yog tias koj tau ua haujlwm. Xav txog koj daim ntawv qhia txhua tus neeg uas koj xav tias tseem ceeb rau txoj haujlwm lossis txoj haujlwm. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, saib xyuas qhov kev ua tiav ntawm koj li CV, thiab tseem qhia cov txiaj ntsig ntxiv uas paub qhov txawv koj los ntawm lwm tus sib tw thiab txhawb nqa chaw ua haujlwm tuaj yeem caw koj. Sim ua kom tsis txhob siv lead ua-qhov tseeb: qhov no tsis txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum hais dag txog koj txoj kev zoo lossis kev paub. Tsis yog, qhov no tsuas txhais tau hais tias nws zoo dua tsis txhob tshaj tawm cov qhov khuam me me uas txhua tus muaj. Qhia rau koj tus kheej hauv kev pom kev zoo tshaj plaws, sau cov ntawv sau txog tus kheej, tom qab nyeem ntawv uas koj tus kheej yuav caw nws tus kws sau ntawv mus koom kev sib tham tus kheej.
Qee qhov kev taw qhia tseem ceeb
Hauv kev sau cov ntaub ntawv, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob siv cov nqe lus tsis meej thiab tsis meej xws li "ua tiav ntau", "tau qhia ntau yam", "ua haujlwm ntawm ntau txoj haujlwm". Hloov chaw, tawm ntawm koj cov nqe lus los ntawm kev qhia tus lej lossis sijhawm, piv txwv li, "tshuaj xyuas tsib yam khoom" thiab lawv cov npe, lossis "cob qhia peb tus neeg ua haujlwm," Tsis tas li, siv tsawg daim ntawv sau los ntawm cov lus ua, piv txwv li, siv hloov "lav ris" siv "teb". Nco ntsoov tias txoj ntsiab cai ntawm kev xav zoo: sib piv li cas "cov nyiaj tau los muag ntau ntxiv" thiab "tiv thaiv ib qho kev poob qis hauv kev muag khoom" tau pom.
