Xa rov qab cov khoom rau lub khw yuav ua tau qhov nyuaj. Nws zoo nkaus li tias feem ntau cov khw muag khoom nyob ntawm tus neeg yuav khoom ib sab, lawv cog lus tias cov khoom lag luam tuaj yeem sib pauv lossis xa rov qab, tab sis qhov tseeb nws feem ntau hloov tawm tias rau ib qho laj thawj lossis lwm tus muag tau sim tsis kam. Dab tsi yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsum tau rov xa cov khoom mus rau tom lub khw yog tias nws tsis haum lossis tsis zoo rau qhov tsis zoo lossis qee qhov laj thawj? Rov qab muab cov khoom tsis yog qhov nyuaj, tab sis koj yuav tsum pheej ua siab ntev yog tias tus muag pib nrhiav cov laj thawj tsis kam.
Kev npaj tswv yim
Thawj kauj ruam yog kom nco ntsoov tias koj tuaj yeem xa rov qab cov khoom nkaus xwb yog tias tsis pub ntau tshaj ob lub lis piam tau dhau mus txij li hnub ntawm kev yuav khoom (tsis suav rau kev yuav khoom), thiab yog tias cov khoom no yuav xa rov qab. Muaj ib daim ntawv teev npe ntawm cov khoom uas tsis tuaj yeem xa rov qab, xws li tshuaj kho mob.
Ntxiv mus, koj yuav tsum, nkag siab, kom nkag siab tias cov khoom ntawm cov khoom tsis zoo tsis tuaj yeem xa rov qab. Yog tias cov khoom tsis tau ploj thiab txhua yam yog nyob hauv kev txiav txim nrog nws, ces nws tsuas yog pauv tau rau qhov zoo sib xws - tab sis ntawm cov xim sib txawv, qhov loj me, kev teeb tsa, thiab lwm yam.
Yog tias koj xav xa cov khoom rov qab rau tom khw thiab muab pauv rau lwm tus, koj yuav tsum them sai sai rau qhov tseeb tias nws khaws cov ntawv lo. Tsis tas li, yog tias qhov zoo li zoo li nws tau siv: piv txwv li, yog tias lub tsho poj niam hnav kom pom meej, ces nws yuav tsis raug txais rov qab. Thiab, tau kawg, koj yuav tsum khaws daim ntawv yuav khoom, txwv tsis pub yuav tsis muaj dab tsi los ua pov thawj tias cov khoom tau txais yuav hauv lub khw tshwj xeeb no. Tab sis yog tias tsis muaj kev kuaj xyuas, ces txoj cai lij choj muab rau qhov muaj peev xwm siv cov pov thawj.
Nws tshwm sim tias yam uas koj xav tau txais hauv kev sib pauv rau yam koj yuav yog tsis nyob hauv lub khw. Hauv qhov no, koj tuaj yeem tos ib pliag kom txog thaum nws nqa, lossis thov kom them nyiaj rov qab.
Lub neej xyaum
Ntxiv nrog rau cov ntsiab lus theoretical, Kuv xav txheeb xyuas cov qauv tshwj xeeb hauv lub neej. Yog tias koj ntseeg tau tias koj ua yog lawm, koj tuaj yeem thov kom rov qab los yog pauv, txawm tias tus muag tau ruaj siab los sim muab qee qhov laj thawj rau qhov tsis kam. Xav txog qhov kev zam yog:
“Yog li, zoo, hnub no yog hnub Sunday. Kuv thov txim, tab sis peb tsis txais cov khoom ntawm hnub so. Nws paub meej tias yuav muaj cov cai zoo li no hauv khw, tab sis lawv tsis ua raws li kev cai. Koj tuaj yeem, tuaj yeem tuaj ntawm no rau lwm hnub. Yog tias koj tuaj dua, tsis muaj sijhawm, koj yuav tsum hais kom koj tus kheej ua. Koj tuaj yeem thov kom tau phau ntawv foob, caw tus neeg muag khoom laus lossis tus saib xyuas lub khw, qhia txoj cai tiv thaiv cov neeg siv khoom (txhua lub khw muaj). Feem ntau, yog tias ib lub khw qhib rau hnub so, nws yuav tsum lees txais rov qab thiab.
"Thov txim, tab sis kuv lub computer khov, kuv luam tsis tau daim foos thov uas yuav tsum muaj." (Sau los ntawm txhais tes.) "Kuv thov zam txim, tab sis tsis muaj nyiaj ntawm lub rooj noj nyiaj los kom koj them nyiaj rov qab" "Cov kev sib txuas nrog lub txhab nyiaj tsis tau tsim, yog li tsis tau rov qab los rau daim npav tsis tau." Tag nrho cov kev thov txim no xaus nrog kev thov tuaj rau lwm hnub. Tej zaum, yog tias koj tuaj lwm hnub, tom qab ntawd txhua yam yuav ua haujlwm tiav, tab sis feem ntau qhov no tsuas yog kev zam xwb. Txij li muaj tsuas yog ob lub lis piam rau kev them nyiaj rov qab, tom qab ntawd yog koj tos rau lub sijhawm, koj tuaj yeem tos kom txoj cai hla mus rau tus muag khoom sab. Tom qab 14 hnub, nws yuav tsis tuaj yeem xa rov qab cov khoom lag luam.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhov xav tau, tom qab ntawd cov nyiaj yuav xa rov qab lossis cov khoom yuav sib pauv. Tus neeg muag khoom tuaj yeem nkag siab, nws tiv thaiv nws cov nyiaj tau, txawm hais tias qee zaum ntawm kev coj tsis ncaj.
