Tus pab cuam muag khoom tsis yog zaum kawg hauv lub khw. Nrog nws cov kev pab, cov neeg tuaj yeem tuaj yeem nrog cov lus nug uas tshwm sim hauv cov txheej txheem xaiv thiab yuav khoom. Rau tus kws pab tswv yim txoj haujlwm ua haujlwm txi txiv zoo, koj tsis tas yuav tsum paub txhua yam ntawm cov khoom, tab sis kuj qhia kev ua phooj ywg thiab kev nyiam.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua neeg zoo thiab ua phooj ywg. Thaum koj pom ib tus qhua nkag mus hauv lub khw lossis chav haujlwm uas koj ua haujlwm, nco ntsoov tos txais lawv. Txo kev sib cuag nrog koj cov npoj yaig. Tus neeg thov kev pab yuav tsis nyiam qhov no, thiab nws yuav xav tias kev sib txuas lus nrog lwm tus neeg pab tswv yim yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj rau koj dua li nws. Tsis txhob noj lossis ntxo cov pos hniav hauv chaw ua haujlwm. ib tus neeg yuav khoom tuaj yeem tshwm sim thaum lub sijhawm twg, thiab nws yog qhov tsawg kawg ntawm kev txais tos nws nrog lub qhov ncauj tag nrho.
Kauj ruam 2
Nug cov lus nug yog. Tom qab sib tham tag, nug seb koj tuaj yeem pab tau li cas. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tsis txhob siv lo lus zoo li no: “Kuv puas tuaj yeem pab koj qee yam? Koj puas xav tau kev pab kuv? " Ib tus neeg nyob rau ntawm theem subconscious yuav siv zog los teb "tsis tau", thiab daim ntawv ntawm cov lus nug yuav tsuas txhawb kom nws ua li ntawd.
Kauj ruam 3
Tsis txhob ua sab. Yog hais tias tus neeg ntawd teb tsis zoo los yog hais tias lawv tsis xav tau kev pab, tsis txhob yuam nws. Nqis ib tog thiab tos. Tej zaum, thaum lub sijhawm xaiv cov txheej txheem, tus qhua yuav sim nrhiav koj nrog plia, thiab txawm tias tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem sab laj nws. Kev xav ntau dhau thiab rov qab ua qhov tsis zoo siab tsis yog qhov pab tswv yim xwb, tab sis kuj ntawm lub khw tag nrho.
Kauj ruam 4
Txaus siab nrog, tso tawm indifference. Tus neeg yuav khoom xav tias seb koj xav sib txuas lus nrog nws los yog tsis. Yog tias koj teb txhua nqe lus nug tsis tiav lossis tsis kam lees, nws yuav pom nws kiag. Yog li no, sim ua kom imbued nrog cov teeb meem ntawm interlocutor. Tshawb nrhiav yam uas nws xav tau tiag tiag, thiab qhia kuv tias yam khoom twg yuav txaus siab nws cov kev xav tau ntau yam.
Kauj ruam 5
Yog tias koj yog tus pab cuam muag khoom rau qee hom khoom lag luam, nyob rau hauv txhua kis tsis txhob cia koj tus kheej hais lus tsis zoo txog cov neeg sib tw ntawm cov khoom. Qhov no yog qhov tsis tshaj lij thiab ua txhaum txoj cai kev coj ua uas muaj hauv qhov chaw tshaj tawm.
