Coob leej ntau tus ntshai hais lus hauv cov pej xeem - peb ntseeg tias nws zoo dua yog tias sawv ntawm sab nraud, nyob rau tom qab, tab sis tsis nyob hauv nruab nrab ntawm kev mloog.
Tab sis qee lub sijhawm ntawm kev tshaj lij ntawm kev ua haujlwm ntawm ntau tus neeg ua haujlwm nrog rau qhov tseeb tias nws yuav tsum hais lus hauv zej tsoom, txawm tias nws yog kev nthuav qhia ntawm cov khoom tshiab, lossis nws cov kev xav thiab tswv yim, kev pom zoo rau lwm tus, thiab lwm yam. Cov xwm txheej zoo li no xav kom tus neeg hais lus tsis ntshai ntawm kev hais lus hauv zej zog.
Tsis tas yuav txhawj xeeb, koj yuav tsum tau txais qee qhov kev paub thiab sai sai no nws yuav tsis nyuaj rau koj tawm mus rau cov pej xeem nrog kev nthuav qhia. Koj txoj haujlwm yuav nyob ntawm seb koj ua tau zoo npaum li cas.
Koj qhov kev nthuav qhia yuav ua tiav yog tias koj muab koj tus kheej rau khau ntawm ib tus neeg hauv pawg neeg. Thaum koj nkag siab yuav ua li cas txaus nyiam cov mloog, koj yuav tsum nrhiav txoj hauv kev rau cov neeg tuaj saib.
Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum npaj rau qhov kev nthuav qhia ua ntej. Nov yog qee qhov kev npaj:
- Txhawm rau txais cov neeg nyiam mloog, muab cov lus qhia luv lossis nug cov lus nug rau cov neeg nyob hauv. Tab sis nco ntsoov tias lub intro nws tus kheej tsis siv ntev. Hauv feem pua cov ntsiab lus, lub sijhawm rau cov lus qhia yuav tsum tsis pub tshaj 5-10 feem pua ntawm tag nrho cov lus ceeb toom.
- Npaj cov kab ke sib dhos ntawm kev nthuav qhia.
- Daim ntawv tuaj yeem ua tau ntxiv nrog kev txheeb cais, cov kws tshaj lij kev xav, ua qauv qhia thiab cov lus piv txwv.
- Tsis txhob ua ib qho kev hais lus ntev dhau. Muab koj cov lus hais kom nrov rau saib seb nws yog ntev dhau lawm thiab yog tias koj tab tom ua haujlwm tsis muaj sijhawm. Siv sijhawm me ntsis rau cov lus nug.
- Qhov kawg ntawm daim ntawv tshaj tawm yuav tsum suav tag nrho koj lub hom phiaj. Cov ntsiab lus yuav tsum muab ntsiab lus luv luv. Koj yuav tsum teeb cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb ntawm koj cov lus sib tham kom cov neeg mloog kom muaj ib yam los xav txog tom qab koj hais tawm tiav tas.
- Nws raug nquahu kom npaj npaj cov kev ua kom zoo rau koj daim ntawv tshaj tawm. Koj tuaj yeem siv ntawv swb lossis ntawv tshaj xo uas yuav cuam tshuam txog cov ncauj lus ntawm daim ntawv qhia. Yog tias koj siv lub vev xaib dawb, sim sau kom nrawm, kom sau ncaj, thiab zoo saib.
- Tsis txhob nyeem cov ntaub ntawv ntawm cov kab ntawv. Nws ib txwm nyiam thiab tho txawv. Nyeem tsuas yog lub ntsiab lus, thiab qhia tus so.
- Rov hais dua koj ob peb zaug. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav ntawm daim iav, nyob rau hauv pem hauv ntej ntawm cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg. Mloog lawv cov lus ntawm koj hais lus, lawv qhov kev xav, qhov tsis zoo thiab qhov ntsiab lus.
Hauv kev hais lus, koj yuav tsum npaj zoo, ua tib zoo kawm ntawm cov ncauj lus qhia. Ua siab loj hauv koj qhov kev nthuav qhia. Cov ris tsho yuav tsum ua kom zoo thiab zoo nkauj. Thaum lub sijhawm nthuav tawm, tsim kom muaj lub qhov muag nrog cov neeg tuaj saib, hais lus kom meej meej, siv koj lub sijhawm. Tsom ntsoov rau cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb ntawm daim ntawv qhia. Sim ua koj tus kheej!
