Lub sij hawm belongs rau qeb ntawm yam, qhov poob ntawm uas tshwm sim imperceptibly. Heev feem ntau, tib neeg yws txog qhov tsis muaj sijhawm nyob nruab hnub, thiab paub tias lawv tsis muaj sijhawm los ua ib yam dabtsi. Qhov xwm txheej yog paradoxical, thiab txhawm rau nrhiav txoj kev tawm ntawm nws, koj yuav tsum xav paub qhov twg thiab sijhawm ua haujlwm li cas.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Tsis txhob nkim koj lub zog. "Txau" rau ntawm qhov uas tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb thiab tsis tas yuav muaj kev koom nrog koj tus kheej, koj tuaj yeem nkees nkees. Nco txoj cai 80/20. Ib-tsib ntawm kev siv zog ua lag luam yuav tsum yog 80 feem pua ntawm qhov tshwm sim. Yog tias tsis yog, saib qhov twg koj ploj tawm ntawm cov tsam thawj. Nug koj tus kheej lo lus nug: dab tsi tsuas yog nyob ntawm koj thiab dab tsi koj yuav tsum ua tam sim ntawd kom ua tiav koj cov hom phiaj.
Kauj ruam 2
Txhua yam uas tsis tas yuav koj tus kheej kev koom tes tuaj yeem thov kom ua lwm tus neeg: cov neeg nyob hauv qab, tsev neeg, thiab lwm yam. Qhia cov lus qhia thiab thov kom meej meej thiab ncaj qha rau tus uas muaj peev xwm tiv nrog lawv. Txwv tsis pub, koj yuav rov ua txhua yam koj tus kheej. Rho tawm txoj cai. Qhia koj tus kheej thiab lwm tus, tswj hwm thiab coj qhia, thiab tsis ntev lawv yuav ua haujlwm.
Kauj ruam 3
Tsis txhob poob siab thiab kawm mloog zoo. Thaum koj tau txais mus ua haujlwm, hloov mus ua lwm yam haujlwm lossis sib tham hauv lub xov tooj tuaj yeem thim txhua yam kev siv zog rau koj.
Kauj ruam 4
Kawm kom hais “tsis tau” rau tib neeg, kev sib txuas lus nrog leej twg tshem koj lub zog thiab yog lub nra rau koj. Yog tias koj xav tias koj nkim sijhawm nrog cov neeg zoo li no, ua tib zoo hais lus thiab tsis txhob siv sib txuas lus, tham txog kev tsis khoom.
Kauj ruam 5
Kawm npaj ua kom muaj kev kub ntxhov los ntawm kom tau txais qhov zoo ntawm koj cov kev ua. Npaj rau thaum pib txhua hnub, vas thiv, thiab hli. Tsis txhob hnov qab txog cov haujlwm ntev (yuav tsev tshiab, thiab lwm yam). Txhua lub hom phiaj yuav tsum tau teem caij thiab meej meej kom ncav sijhawm. Lawm, lawv yuav tsum yog tiag tiag. Siv ntau yam cuab yeej, incl. cov koom haum hauv hluav taws xob. Lawv yuav nco koj ntawm qhov muaj feem thib ntawm cov haujlwm thiab sijhawm ntawm lawv ua tiav.
Kauj Ruam 6
Ua cov phiaj xwm tsis yog ncua sij hawm, tab sis kuj tseem ceeb. Muab cov khoom tseem ceeb tshaj ua ntej, koj yuav rov qab los rau lawv tsis tseg. Ntawm qhov thib ob - tam sim no cov haujlwm tau teem tseg rau lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb. Qhov kawg tom ntej yog qhov teeb meem me me uas tsis tas yuav siv ntau lub zog. Lawv tuaj yeem daws tau raws li kev hloov chaw los ntawm cov haujlwm tseem ceeb raws li lub hauv paus ntsiab lus: qhov so zoo tshaj yog kev hloov haujlwm.
Kauj Ruam 7
Npaj tsis tsuas yog ua haujlwm, tab sis kuj yog kev ua si. Txhua tus neeg uas paub yuav ua li cas so kom txaus thaum so, nws nyob zoo nrog txhua txoj haujlwm thiab ua tiav txhua qhov chaw. Nco ntsoov ua raws li koj cov phiaj xwm, ua tiav qhov koj xav tau, thiab tsis lees qhov tsis zoo rau koj.
Kauj ruam 8
Ua tag nrho cov haujlwm npaj, noj thiab so kom ncav sijhawm, pw kom txaus thiab teem sijhawm tsawg kawg 30 feeb nyob rau ib hnub kom nyob ib leeg nrog koj tus kheej. Yog li koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ua neeg luag lwm tus, ua rau lwm tus ua haujlwm thiab ua rau koj tsis muaj mob nkeeg.
