Raws li kev coj ua qhia, kev xam phaj raws li hom ntawv sau xov xwm, txawm tias nws pom meej yooj yim, muab qhov nyuaj tshaj plaws. Qhov nyuaj tsis yog tsuas yog xaiv cov lus nug, kev sib tham ntawm nws tus kheej, tab sis kuj yog qhov txiav txim tom ntej. Yog li, txhawm rau ua kom txoj haujlwm yooj yim li sai tau, tus kws tshaj xov xwm lossis luam ntawv npaj rau kev xam phaj ua ntej.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua ntej sau ntawm cov khoom.
Sim kawm kom ntau li ntau tau txog koj tus neeg teb thiab nws txoj haujlwm. Nyeem cov ntawv nyeem tshwj xeeb, ntawv xov xwm, lossis nrhiav cov chaw muaj feem xyuam. Nws yuav zoo mus nrhiav ib qho keeb kwm ntawm koj tus interlocutor yav tom ntej ua ntej. Raws li txoj cai, nws tsis yog qhov nyuaj yog tias nws yog ib tus neeg paub zoo. Ntxiv rau, kev sib tham yav dhau los yog cov khoom siv zoo qhia. Dab tsi yog nws rau? Koj yuav ua daim duab ua ntej ntawm tus neeg, koj yuav paub tias nws yog leej twg thiab yuav tuaj yeem nug nws cov lus nug tiag tiag yam tsis muaj kev thab plaub hauv kev sau ntawv thiab cov ntsiab lus me me.
Kauj ruam 2
Npaj cov npe sau cov lus nug
Thawj kauj ruam tau pab koj tawm tswvyim txog tus neeg. Tam sim no cov ntaub ntawv xov xwm thiab cov lus qhia pib tawm ntawm cov lus nug: "Koj yug qhov twg", "Koj ua dab tsi", thiab lwm yam Kev kawm txog keeb kwm yuav muab zaub mov rau cov lus nug ntxiv: "Koj tau tswj hwm li cas los mus tawm hauv lub xeev thiab ua lub chaw txias tshaj plaws ntawm txhua lub sijhawm thiab neeg?" Cov lus nug yuav tsum qhia qhov tseem ceeb ntawm ib tus neeg, muab nws ntau rau kev xav thiab txheeb xyuas. Kev txheeb xyuas, tshwj xeeb hauv kev xam phaj, muaj ntau lub sijhawm ntau los nyeem dua li cov ntaub ntawv sau qhuav.
Kauj ruam 3
Sib tham nrog cov uas paub tus neeg
Nws yuav yog ib tus neeg. Yog tias koj paub cov neeg paub zoo, koj muaj hmoo. Nug lawv tias tus neeg ntawd tus xeeb ceem zoo li cas, nws sib txuas lus zoo li cas, tus cwj pwm nws muaj dab tsi, nws nyiam dab tsi, cov lus nug twg tuaj yeem nug nws, thiab qhov twg yog qhov zoo dua uas yuav tsum zam, thiab Piv txwv li, yog tias koj pom tias koj nyiam tib phau ntawv lossis pab nkauj paj nruag, hauv kev xam phaj koj tuaj yeem txhib nws los tham txog nws, hais tias koj nyiam nws dhau - thiab tus neeg yuav zoo dua rau koj.
Kauj ruam 4
Rov tuaj xam phaj
Nws zoo li tsis zoo, tab sis kev xam phaj xav tau xyaum. Tsawg kawg ntawm kuv lub taub hau. Xav txog tias koj yuav tham li cas, koj yuav ntsib li cas, lo lus twg koj yuav pib sib tham nrog, koj yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus neeg sib tham ntsiag to thiab cov lus teb hauv monosyllables, lossis, sib tham, sib tham tsis tu ncua. Qee lub sijhawm koj tsis tshua muaj sijhawm hauv sijhawm - xav tias muaj pes tsawg lus koj yuav muaj sijhawm nug.
Kauj ruam 5
Tsis txhob hnov qab txog qhov pom
Tso koj tus kheej kom: yog tias koj tus kws kho qhov teeb meem tawm ib yam dab tsi hauv koj, xav txog tias kev xam phaj yuav ua tsis tiav. Xav txog khaub ncaws. Nws yuav tsum tsis txhob npau taws dhau los yog hais tawm.
Kauj Ruam 6
Tshawb xyuas cov txheej txheem
Lub roj teeb ntawm lub koob yees duab thiab lub suab kaw yuav tsum them, yuav tsum muaj cov ntawv dawb hauv daim ntawv sau cia, thiab nws yog qhov zoo dua los nqa ob lub npiv nrog koj.
