Daim ntawv qhia txog tus kheej tso cai rau ib tus neeg los qhia nws tus kheej rau ib tus tswv hauj lwm muaj peev xwm, qhia txog nws tus kheej, kev tshaj lij thiab ua tau zoo. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog tias qhov kev paub thiab kev txawj xav tau qhov kev nthuav tawm ntawm tus kheej nthuav dav tus neeg thov kev pabcuam tau txoj haujlwm.
Xav paub thiab nthuav tawm koj tus kheej
Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm kev xav tau daim ntawv sau keeb kwm yog xav ua tus nyeem. Tus no tuaj yeem yog lub koom haum ua tus thawj coj lossis tus neeg tuav haujlwm kom nrhiav neeg. Tau kawg, daim ntawv sau keeb kwm tsis tuaj yeem lav txoj haujlwm, tab sis nws yog thawj theem ntawm nws.
Kom txaus siab rau tus nyeem ntawv, tus neeg thov xa cov ntaub ntawv hais txog nws tus kheej yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias nws yuav tsum muaj feem cuam thiab xaiv. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sau tus kheej piav qhia txog lub neej tsis tseem ceeb hauv lub neej - tsom mus rau kev kawm, txoj haujlwm tau tuav ua ntej lossis tam sim no, qhov tshwj xeeb ntawm kev ua haujlwm. Ua tib zoo saib cov cwj pwm ntawm tus kheej uas coj koj tus kheej los ua tus neeg ua haujlwm.
Nws yog tsim nyog kom nco ntsoov tias thaum sau daim ntawv qhia tus kheej, koj yuav tsum ua raws li tus qauv kev lag luam, qhia luv luv, meej thiab meej. Txhua hom kev piav qhia tig, kev saturation nrog epithets yog qhov tsis tuaj yeem lees paub rau qhov zoo li no, nws yog qhov tsim nyog kom tsis txhob muaj qhov piv txwv qhia thiab tsis zoo. Nws tsis pom zoo kom ua phem rau kev siv ntawm cov lus tshaj tawm "Kuv" - nws suab provocative thiab pretentious.
Thaum teev cov koj tau ua yav dhau los / tam sim no ua haujlwm, zam kev tsis muaj peev xwm - lus teb, pom. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los siv "ua tiav", "tsa", thiab lwm yam Qhov no yuav pab kom tsis txhob tus nyeem ntawv xav tias "ua ib qho" ntawm tus neeg hais tias yog neeg. Nws yog qhov zoo dua los siv cov verbs hauv kev nruj tam sim no ntau dua li yav dhau los.
Muaj kev ncaj ncees thiab kev paub nyeem yog tus yuam sij rau menyuam
Thaum sau daim ntawv qhia tus kheej, koj yuav tsum zam kom paub tseeb txog qhov tsis zoo ntawm keeb kwm kev ua haujlwm, tab sis tib lub sijhawm koj yuav tsum ua siab ncaj, vim tias tsis muaj tus tswv ntiav neeg xav tiv toj rau tus neeg uas pib dag nws. Raws li rau daim duab, koj tuaj yeem muab nws rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv sau txog tus kheej, tab sis nco ntsoov tias daim duab yuav tsum yog koj nkaus xwb thiab nws yuav tsum nruj. Nws tsis raug tso cai rau suav nrog cov duab ntawm cov tog, rooj noj mov, kab tshoob kev kos, thiab lwm yam hauv cov ntaub ntawv sau tseg. Feem ntau, ib lo lus nug zoo sib xws tuaj yeem nrhiav tau ntawm kev xam phaj, thaum koj raug caw tuaj koom nws.
Cov neeg uas muaj cov ntaub ntawv sau tseg yuav tsum tsis txhob sau tag nrho cov haujlwm - tsom rua tam sim no. Ua tib zoo mloog zoo dua rau yam koj tau ua lossis koj tau ua hauv 5 xyoo dhau los. Qhov no yog qhov cuam tshuam rau lub peev xwm ua haujlwm ntau dua li qhov twg thiab nrog tus neeg koj tau ua haujlwm 15 xyoo dhau los. Yog tias ua tau, rhais koj cov haujlwm, piv txwv li, yog tias koj yog tus kws sau ntawv xov xwm, tus kws tsim vaj tsev, thiab lwm yam, lossis muab cov txuas rau cov xaib nrog koj cov dej num tiav.
Nco ntsoov nug ib tus neeg uas muaj qhov zoo ntawm cov lus txhawm rau txheeb xyuas koj li keeb kwm yog tias koj tsis paub koj txoj kev paub. Cov haujlwm lag luam zoo tsim tau tus cwj pwm zoo rau kev ntsib tus neeg thov.