Ntau tus tau hnov qhov kev thov tias tus neeg muag khoom zoo yog tus muag khoom. Tseeb, muaj cov neeg muag zoo uas paub muag muag intuitively, txawm tias tsis muaj qhov paub txog kev muag khoom thev naus laus zis. Tab sis koj tuaj yeem kawm ua tus muag zoo.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Thawj qhov uas qhov tseem ceeb rau tus neeg muag zoo yog kev ua nws tus kheej. Ua ntej thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev ntseeg hauv kev ntseeg siab. Koj yuav tsum ntseeg koj tus kheej, hauv koj lub tuam txhab thiab hauv koj cov khoom. Txhawm rau kom paub meej, koj yuav tsum yog tus kws tshaj lij, paub koj cov khoom - nws cov yam ntxwv, cov yam ntxwv, cov khoom muaj txiaj ntsig, qhov zoo, thiab lwm yam.
Kauj ruam 2
Qhov thib ob qhov tseem ceeb rau tus neeg muag khoom zoo yog qhov muaj peev xwm txhawb nqa kev ntseeg siab rau tus neeg yuav khoom. Yog li, koj yuav tsum tsim kom muaj tus cwj pwm zoo - kev kaj siab, kev phooj ywg rau txhua tus qhua tuaj noj mov, kev xav paub tiag tiag los pab. Cov kev ua kom zoo siab thiab zoo huv si ntawm tus muag khoom kuj tseem ceeb kom txhawb kev ntseeg siab ntawm cov neeg yuav khoom. Tsis tas li, tsis txhob hnov qab txog qhov kev tshoov siab thawj zaug, uas feem ntau yog kev txiav txim siab.
Koj puas paub dab tsi ntxiv yog qhov txawv ntawm tus muag zoo? Nws kho kev muag me ntsis raws li kev ua si, tsis yog nws txoj haujlwm. Yog li ntawd, cia muag cov khoom lag luam dhau los ua kev ua si rau koj uas koj thiab koj cov neeg yuav khoom yeej.
Kev muag khoom feem ntau ua raws li cov phiaj xwm hauv qab no: pib sib tham (qhia txog) - qhia txog cov neeg siv cov kev xav tau - sib tham - tsom mus rau cov qhua tuaj noj mov ntawm cov khoom - qhov tshwm sim. Txhua theem ntawm cov theem ntawm qhov muag muaj nws tus kheej nuances, cia saib ntawm qhov pib qhov pib.
Kauj ruam 3
Lus qhia ua ntej. Qhov pib zoo rau kev sib tham yog qhov tseem ceeb. Tab sis nws tsis yog kev taw qhia nruj heev li "koj xav tau ib yam dab tsi?", Uas tsuas yog repels feem ntau ntawm cov neeg yuav khoom. Qhov sib txawv ntawm tus neeg muag khoom zoo yog tias nws yog tus kws npliag siab thiab paub zoo txog kev nrhiav tus kheej rau txhua tus neeg yuav khoom.
Qhib rau cov qhua tuaj noj mov, ua zoo li nws. Hais lus ntawm tus neeg yuav khoom cov lus (piv txwv li kev xav lossis kev ua lag luam), kho koj qhov nrawm thiab ntim ntawm kev hais lus, thiab txoj kev koj hais lus rau txoj kev uas tus neeg yuav khoom hais. (Hauv kev xav txog lub hlwb, cov txheej txheem no hu ua "tsom iav"). Tab sis, ntawm chav kawm, tsis txhob hnov qab txog lub siab ntawm kev faib ua feem, thiaj li tsis mus overdo nws!
Dab tsi yuav yog qhov kev taw qhia? Ua ntej tshaj, pib nrog kev sib hu. Tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem muab koj cov khoom lag luam, muab rau ua kom paub cov khoom lag luam, lossis lwm qhov pib (impromptu). Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tshem tawm cov teeb meem ntawm kev nyob tsis muaj chaw thiab ceeb toom rau tus neeg yuav khoom, los tsim cov kev mob rau kev sib tham hauv kev sib tham ntxiv.
Kauj ruam 4
Kev txheeb xyuas cov kev xav tau. Tus neeg muag khoom zoo yuav tsum muaj peev xwm mloog thiab mloog tus neeg yuav khoom. Qhov no txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum muaj peev xwm nug cov lus nug txhawm rau txhawm rau txheeb xyuas cov neeg yuav tsum tau cov khoom tshwj xeeb.
Nws ntseeg tau tias tus neeg muag khoom zoo yuav tsum yog ua ntej ntawm tag nrho cov kev sib raug zoo. Qhov no muaj tseeb rau kev muag khoom me, qhov twg tus muag tau hais ntau dua los ntawm kev koom nrog khoom. Tab sis nyob rau hauv kev muag khoom loj, txawm tias tus pib ua dhau los tuaj yeem dhau los ua tus muag khoom zoo, yog tias tsuas yog nws paub yuav ua li cas kom tau tus neeg yuav khoom los tham thiab tsis xav li cas nws ua rau nws xav txog kev yuav khoom.
Kauj ruam 5
Sib tham txog cov kev xav tau. Thaum koj tau txheeb xyuas qhov xav tau ntawm cov neeg siv khoom, tsis tas yuav tsum yuam koj cov khoom lag luam! Lub siab xav mus yuav khoom yuav tsum yog los ntawm tus yuav nws tus kheej, koj tsuas yog pab nws nrog qhov no. Ua li no, koj yuav tsum pab tus neeg yuav khoom to taub qhov xav tau ntawm yam khoom thiab qhia qhov xav tau yuav nws. Hauv lwm lo lus, koj yuav tsum tsim kom muaj lub siab rau tus neeg yuav khoom, tab sis tib lub sijhawm, tus neeg yuav khoom yuav tsum xav tias yuav ib yam khoom nws tus kheej txiav txim siab.
Yog li xav tias koj tus kheej yog tus kws pab tswv yim, lossis, raws li cov neeg muag khoom tau zoo xav hais tias, "ua phooj ywg rau koj cov neeg siv khoom."
Kauj ruam 6
Kev sib xyaw ntawm cov neeg siv khoom lub siab rau cov khoom lag luam. Tom qab txheeb xyuas qhov xav tau (los yog tsim kev txhawb nqa) rau tus yuav, muab dab tsi haum nws zoo tshaj plaws. Nws tseem zoo yog tias koj muab lub taj laj xaiv rau cov neeg yuav khoom. Kev yaum tuaj ua ke hauv theem ntawm qhov muag. Piav qhia qhov zoo ntawm koj cov khoom, qhia rau peb seb nws yuav pab tau zoo rau tus neeg yuav khoom, lossis tsuas yog tsis txaus siab coj tus neeg yuav khoom rau qhov kev xav yuav.
Kauj Ruam 7
Ntsuas. Ib qho txiaj ntsig zoo yog, tau kawg, muag cov khoom lag luam. Tab sis ib qho txiaj ntsig zoo dua yog ib tus neeg siv khoom txaus siab. Ua ntej, cov neeg siv khoom txaus siab yog qhov kev tshaj tawm zoo tshaj plaws rau koj lub khw (tuam txhab, ruaj). Thib ob, nws tuaj yeem dhau los ua koj cov neeg siv khoom ib txwm.
Ua ib tus neeg muag zoo yog tus txawj tiag tiag, zoo li kev kos duab, tab sis koj tuaj yeem kawm nws!
