Cov neeg tsis pom zoo "kim!" tsis tau txhais hais tias tus nqi ntawm yam khoom lossis kev pabcuam siab heev. Ua ntej koj yuav tsum paub qhov laj thawj ntawm qhov kev tsis pom zoo, tom qab uas feem ntau nws tuaj yeem kov yeej.
Vim li cas tus neeg siv hais "nqi"
Nws tuaj yeem muaj ntau yam laj thawj rau cov neeg yuav khoom tawm tsam. Feem ntau tus cwj pwm yog tias tus neeg siv khoom suav rau ntawm tus nqi luv nqi. Muaj ib hom ntawm cov neeg uas siv los sib khom lub sijhawm twg los tau, nyob qhov twg, txawm tias tus nqi ntawm cov khoom lossis cov kev pabcuam ntawd tsim nyog heev. Kev tawm tsam "Loj" nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no yog siv los pib sib cav.
Lwm qhov laj thawj ntawm kev thuam yog kev sib piv. Tus neeg siv khoom tuaj yeem piv cov nqi ntawm ib yam khoom lossis kev pabcuam nrog tus nqi ntawm xyoo dhau los, tus nqi ntawm tus nqi sib tw, lossis nws tus kheej lub tswv yim hais txog ntau npaum li cas cov khoom no yuav tsum raug nqi. Tsis tas li, qhov laj thawj ntawm kev tsis kam yuav yog qhov tsis txaus siab ntawm tus neeg nws tus kheej.
Txhawm rau ua haujlwm nrog kev tawm tsam thiab kov yeej lawv, koj yuav tsum tsim kom muaj qhov laj thawj. Qee zaum, kom paub qhov laj thawj, nws tsim nyog nug tus neeg siv ncaj qha.
Txog ntawm kev cuam tshuam rau qhov "Hnav" Tsis Pom Zoo
Muaj tsim muaj qhov laj thawj yog vim li cas cov neeg siv hais "Kev Siv Nyiaj", koj tuaj yeem pib ua haujlwm nrog kev tawm tsam. Yog li, yog tias ib tus neeg siv khoom tsuas yog sim kom tau txais kev txo nqi ntawm koj, koj tsis tas yuav mus nrog lawv. Nyob rau hauv qhov xwm txheej zoo li no, koj yuav tsum pov txhua txoj kev mob siab rau tus neeg yuav khoom, lav tus nqi, hais txog qhov tsim nyog ntawm cov khoom nws tus kheej, nrog rau cov kev pabcuam cuam tshuam. Tsuas yog tias tus neeg tseem txuas ntxiv khoov nws cov kab, thiab koj xav tias tsis muaj kev txo nqi, cov muag yuav tsuas yuav swb, nws ua rau nkag siab txog qhov kev xaiv los txo tus nqi rau cov neeg siv khoom tshwj xeeb. Qhov kev xaiv no tau xaiv tau yog tias nws yog tus neeg yuav khoom los yog cov neeg siv khoom muaj peev xwm, tus neeg yuav khoom siv yuav khoom loj loj, thiab lwm yam.
Nws yog qhov nyuaj me ntsis ntxiv nrog kev tawm tsam ntawm ib tus neeg yuav khoom sib piv koj tus nqi ntawm cov nqi ntawm kev sib tw. Ib qho ntawm qhov ua txhaum uas cov muag khoom yog tias lawv pib ua txhaum cai los ntawm hais tias lawv tau nce tus nqi yuav khoom siab, nqi xauj tsev siab dua, lossis siab dua tus nqi thauj. Cov no yog tag nrho koj cov teeb meem, thiab tus neeg siv khoom tsis quav ntsej txog lawv. Koj txoj haujlwm yog mus qhia kab lis kev cai uas cov neeg tau txais yuav tau txais los ntawm kev ua haujlwm nrog koj.
Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, nws raug nquahu kom paub meej txog qhov koj tuaj yeem hla dhau koj cov neeg sib tw. Piv txwv li, kev tiv thaiv ntev dua rau cov khoom lag luam, cov kev pabcuam zoo dua, muaj cov ntawv pov thawj, thiab lwm yam. Hauv kev sib tw ntawm kev sib tw, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob mus dhau deb: tsis muaj ib tus neeg hais lus tsis zoo txog koj cov neeg sib tw, thuam hais tias qhov zoo ntawm lwm tus neeg cov khoom lag luam, kev pabcuam lossis lwm yam.
Yog tias tus nqi yog siab rau tus neeg qhua tshwj xeeb, koj tsuas yog muaj ob txoj kev xaiv. Thawj yog tsis ua haujlwm nrog tus neeg no. Qhov thib ob yog muab nws txoj kev npaj them, cov nyiaj ncua lossis lwm txoj kev them nyiaj uas siv tau rau ob tog los ntawm qhov kev sib pauv lag luam.
